irritating

What is it that men do not understand about women? Is it so incomprehensible that their female counterpart would like to spend as much time as possible before she departs to the other side of the country? Is it too much to ask that he might spend over 3 hours with her? 

Everytime I say something of this effect to him, Mr. Worm would always reply, “But I have to go make money and talk business!” As if that would take up the rest of day (10 hours). As if he would really be sitting in front of his computer emailing, or on the phone with his clients. Such bullshit a lame excuse.

Take today for example. 

I am scheduled to leave Seattle Sunday morning, leaving only three days to actually be able to do anything before I have to start packing. So for this past week, I had been hoping that one of these days he would actually come to the realisation that perhaps, just perhaps, he ought to take out a whole day to spend together. On Monday morning, the first thing he said to me was “I can’t stay out very long today because I have to go home and switch titles on my Lexus and bring my mom shopping for clothes, since she will be leaving for Taiwan soon. But tomorrow I can stay longer.” 

Okay, fine. Use your mom as an excuse; I have nothing to say. It ended up being that his so-called “I can stay longer” only meant an extra *one hour*. Whoopdidoo~~  

Wednesday: same situation.

Today, Thursday, we were together for only four hours, of which one hour was used up discussing matters with a client, another hour eating breakfast, and another hour and half on the road. And then his mom called and told him to go home and do some business for his dad. When I asked him if he was going to leave immediately, he said, “No, not right now. We still have another hour or so.”

Another hour?! 

What the hell can you do in an hour? Where can you go? What can you do without having to keep looking at your watch? You call that spending quality time??? Sure, there might not be much to do, but it’s not like there’s much to do when he goes back home anyways.

Upon expressing my complaints, he only replied, “But I have to make money… and I have to pave the tiles in the driveway.”

Why does it have to be now? Is it an emergency? And why can’t he do it after I leave? I’ll be gone in 3 more days, can’t he do it then?!

The hell with that stupid excuse!!! 

Why are men so insensible? 

No wonder why some women prefer women.